If there is one first impression you want to get right, its when you meet his parents for the first time. Do not underestimate the opinion of his parents, and especially the Mom. Here are some quick and easy tips to be in the good graces of Mom. Be Kate Middleton, not Linsday Lohan!
– Always remember that Moms want their sons to be with the “safest” female possible.
– Dress conservatively. ie. no smoky eye, full red lips, etc.
– Bring a Gift. But choose your gift carefully. If you decide to get flowers, don’t forget the vase!
– Do NOT curse. Even if everyone else is cursing.
– Always remember eye contact. Eye contact shows that you are respectful, interested, and attentive.
– Highlight the things that you have in common, and downplay the things that you don’t have in common.
Good Luck! Leave a comment below and let me know how it goes!
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this is so so SO STUPID AND at times SEXIST
I can't believe you said to add you on facebook AND Google+ hahaha
Meeting his parents for the first time next weekend. Is a bouquet of flowers and a Fruit flan good gift to take along? Can’t claim to bake it myself as I’d be travelling interstate to meet them.
You should be a life coach
Gosh, I wish I saw this video 2 weeks ago 🤦🏼♀️
This is the best!!
What if you met his mother and your bf took your side? and do families mention exs?
Religion, politics, pubic hair?!
Omg! Your video helped me soooo much! Thank you!!!!
Best advice I've heard in a while loved this!!
boyfriend invited me to go out to dinner TOMORROW to meet his parents.. Idk if I should go, idk how to act I'm not good with people. I really want him to be happy and I want to do well but idk if I can do it…
Thank you so much! You are such a funny person (in a good way):D Your video is very helpful. On the weekend I am going to meet his parents. It's so scary. I hope everything will be alright. I like the idea of giving a gift to his mom.
Does the gift apply to all ages cause I'm 15 and I'm just making sure
I love this advice! I'm totally using it.
LOVVEEE THIS VIDEO you hit on Everything I was worried about
Awesomeee😊😻
Shallon, what should I do when the guy I like doesn't respond when I try to talk to or text him?
Your hilarious! 🙂
Yeah, the Mom is key! Good advice here. Check out our Mother-Daughter Channel and watch our video on Meeting the parents for the First Time!
Hi what's your Google+ name?
damn I loved it! thank you so much! 🙂
Ahh I wish I would of found this video sooner! With my current bf I was pretty much blind sided when I first met his parents. I was picking him up one day & he came to my car & said my parents want to meet you. I was wearing kinda short shorts and I didn't want to be rude and say no because they were expecting me so I went.
I've now been with him for 9 months and I don't know how my relationship with his parents are . They are very conservative and quiet compared to me and my family. So it's hard how to figure out how to act, other then stay quiet. His dad is a cop, he's a quiet and serious guy, so I have no clue how to start a convo with him , we have nothing in common .
His mom she's pretty bubbly , likes to cook, I don't know how (I know that's terrible) but it's like we started off good but my bf always tells her everything ! Like how I'm a "bad driver" lol and now she worries when he's with me .. & he tells her these things cause he thinks it's funny but I don't think he realizes how it kinda ruins my relationship with her . He told her I don't cook so of course that was a strike for me , he always tells her stuff about me that he thinks is funny like when I have my girly girl moments & she's told him "she needs to toughen up"
Like how can I fix that ? I'm not like that all the time it's just the stuff my bf only mentions to her is when I have my dumb moments , he never really makes me look good .
His parents aren't rude to me at all , they are so kind it's just I feel we should have a bit closer relationship by now other then "how was your day" convos
this is fantastic !!!!!!!!!! helped me so much i have been so scared
you always give the best advice, I absolutely adore you.
hi shallon 🙂 ive been talking to a boy for about 7-8 months and during that time he would chase after me like CRAZY and i loved it, i felt like such a princess, he made me cookies and wrote notes to me, he bought me flowers and got me a teddy bear on valentine's day soon yes, he admitted to me that he liked me in january so we started going on dates and a week ago he said to me he wasnt ready for a relationship and wanted to be good friends like before but a day later, i was talking to him and mid sentence he holds my face with both of his hands and kisses me like… what??? idk is he just confused on what he wants? Hope you can help me 🙁
Have a lovely day and keep up the great videos!!!
Hi Shallon! Today I was visiting my high school with my best friends and one of my bffs just met a boy who is also a graduate in like seconds and they exchanged numbers! She is great at making boys fall for her immediately anytime anywhere! I really want to be like her please help!
Could you consider doing a video on your best friends dating? And on what to do? Last year, I met someone nice, we became friends, and I introduced them to my best friend. I felt like I was suddenly being replaced once they met. I left for the summer, and they were even closer than before (platonically). Just this week, they started dating and I feel, idk… jealous? Betrayed? Replaced? I need help! Thanks
Shallon please help me!
I have this crush but whenever I am around him he always asks the rest of the girls around me for there number and we go to different schools and our parents are very close please help I don't know what to do.
so i like this girl and a few other people like her too. she constantly asks who i like but idk what to say ik you have a video on it tho. she flirts a bit i think by looking at me i look at her and she looks away or she laughs at dumb jokes. I'm worried because 2 other people liked her became closer friends and then they ended up hating her, please help me! (also translate girls movements texts convos and flirts)
translate girls movements texts convos because I'm confused
Shallon do you think it's possible to play a player? Can you please make a video about players and how to deal with them if you're already in too deep
Hi shallon, I really like this guy. He's part of the popular crowd. I put myself out there like you told me to in the other video but he doesn't notice me. I'm only in the fifth grade, but people right now are at the time in their lives where they stop believing in cooties. I have glasses, acne, I'm about to get braces, and I'm a nerd. I need help.
Ps: could you do a video on how to tell if a guy likes you in elementary school? Kids are a lot different when it comes to clues and hints in the fifth grade..
The guy I like can't chose betwin me and another girl but the girls doing the same to him i hate him for not choosing me yet but I still like him what do i do
Shallon will you be at the Vidcon? I wish they would invite you to do interview with you ❤ you really help girls ❤
Hey shallon! One of my not so close friends, boyfriend started texting me a week ago. He lives quite far away from us so I've never met him irl. I believed he just wanted to get to know his gf friends but now he is getting a bit too flirty (like telling me I'm cute and nice all the time) and it's making me uncomfortable so I stopped talking to him. Now the only problem is that I don't know if I should tell her? Thanks for the help!
Umm what if he parents know who you really are plus I'd you don't act like you won't it set them off the
At you are just like every one eles lol
Do you have n email that I can ask quetions?
I took your advice and ended the relationship awhile back. However, I can't delete these two pictures. They mean a lot to me. Is that normal?
Shallon pls help me!!
Ok so its been 3-4 months since me and my ex broke up, we had been together for about 5 months ,i broke up with him cause he moved really far away and had lost his phone(We're in high school),So i thought that breaking up with him would be better, cause i felt like like i was bothering him like he could be happier with someone else,but i guess i was wrong now i strongly regret it, i miss him i miss him too much i never felt something so strong like this with anyone else, his family ended up moving back and now we're in the same school again i see him everyday and everytime we look at eachother or something similar theres some type of tension a strong one, ive noticed that everytime im around he flirts with other girls ect. My friends tell me hes trying to make me jealous so we can get back?but how do i know thats true if he wanted to go back together would't he ask me?
The other day i was walking around in class and this guy kept on staring at me the next thing i know my ex had hit him(not hard just a push on the shoulder) and told him to look somewhere else,
That happened more than once.
Today he sat in front of me in class and we stared talking he kept playing with the bracelet in my wrist until he grabbed my hand,we were holding hands!but not for long just for some seconds and he asked me about my family and how they were he also asked me if i had a boyfriend i said no, theres something about us something different, we were never your usual "teenage couple" that only lasts 2months no, we are more than that and we both know it,
So Shallon my question is what can i say to him? Or should i wait for him to ask me out again?
Or should i just give it more time?
I really like him or even something more than just like and i really really need your help pls answer,
Thank you Shallon:)
Hey shallon, so I'm on holiday and I'm going home tomorrow, this boy has caught my eye, he works at my holiday resort as a lifeguard he doesn't look that much older than me I'm 14 he looks about 17-18. Obviously because I'm going home tomorrow nothings really going to happen, but I just wanted to know what this means anyways, he wasn't talking to me maybe he never had time over work, or because I'm always with my big brother or if not with him then my mom, or maybe just didn't want to? but today he was smiling at me a good few times, I smiled back of course, so the first time I saw him which was Sunday I didn't really pay much attention to him, I walked my family by the swimming area, and we was at the desk paying and he came over by us and his boss, not sure why but just did and he looked at me but I was kinda looking at his legs daydreaming, you know when your in your own world daydreaming but then I looked up at him and he was looking at me, but today I was standing for my brothers to get out the swimming pool today and he looked over a good few times at me, he smiled at me when he came in the doors of the swimming area, the other night I was standing at the pool table and he was just standing there and looking at me, I looked and then looked away because I get shy. I saw him again before he finished his work he was standing opposite me, not literally opposite me but was over the other side of the room but opposite, and he did look at me a few times, I cannot remember him smiling at me or not, but I kinda smiled at him. 5 mins after him and his friend left he looked at me then went I sorta looked back and his friend kinda looked back at me, please tell me what this ment? I wanna try and look for him on facebook, but I cannot find him,Thankyou!! 🙂
This is so funny and helpful 🙂
awesome advice as always!! shallon, did you move or refurnish? your place looks different, but nice I like it 🙂
hi,
i seriously need your advice on this one so i am re posting this
sorry for bugging you so much
i am 19 and live in india….i saw your videos on youtube and i am a your fan.
i really dont know how to begin or is it even the right way……but here it goes.
i have a crush on one of my guy friend but never said about it to anyone but one day he comes to o me and says that he likes be. i would have been too happy to say yes but his sentence was not yet complete. He said that he likes me but is having a mixed feeling about another girl also and that he is really confused. This girl is a common friend and we (in a group of 8 people) hang out together.
At that time i didnt told him about my feeling, just said that it will be better if you'll clear out your priorities. Later he decides that he wants the other girl. but the tricky part is that this girl is in a long distance relationship and loves her bf enough. when he confessed his feelings for her, as expected he was turned down. She has no interest in him what so ever.
i think that maybe he still have feelings for this other girl.
What should i do?
how can someone not love you <3
Love this!
Good job, Shallon. <3
"You want to be the Kate Middleton."
That's amazing advice, like, I'm being so serious right now.