Has your best friend become more of an enemy? Does she have a new clique or group and now she’s being a mean girl? Is she talking behind your back or ruining things with your crush?
Here’s how to know when you should fight for the friendship and when to let go–and how to do it!
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I hv 3 friends whom I trusted history repeats that they ditched someone other friend ,I dont feel secure respected and wanted by them but I had to always b alert when they try to put me down so may b they were not my friends but were jealous of me
Ive known my friend since I was 18 freshmen year of college and now I’m 23 her 25 and she’s stayed the same. I’ve grown as a person but she hasn’t and is still gossiping about people, sharing (irrelevant) flashbacks from years ago on social media, still all about the drama, and puts her nose into people’s business and relationships (and over the years has sabotaged 3 of mine.). Basically still stuck in the college years & all about the drama.
Binging on your videos. Needed this one
Is it weird that this was published on dec.8 and i always watch this on dec.8
Amazing video
literally my life right now…thank you Shallon 😘
How do I deal with ridicule from my friends about my maturity? I have always been mature for my age (I hope that doesn't sound like I'm honking my own horn, this is based on what I've been told and how I feel about my behavior compared to other people my age). Over the years, I've had more than one friend tell me that I'm trying to act older, wearing too much makeup (I've also had acne since I was 10), or just acting better than them in general. It also tends to give me a disadvantage with guys because the difference between guys my age and I can be exponential. I often feel like I fit in better with groups of adults or older teenagers (I'm 15) than I do with my own age group. I've told these friends multiple times that I'm going to be who I am and If they can't deal with that, then they can feel free to get out of my life. One of them in particular keeps bringing this up. Am I truly doing something wrong or is it her problem to deal with?
I have a friend who's like 3 years younger than me & she started snapchatting my boyfriend while we were dating & then when we broke up (me & my BF) she still talked to him & he flirted with her and they snapchat everyday now..she claims that she doesn't flirt back and stuff but idk what to believe. it makes me so uncomfortable to have her talk to him..she knows it makes me uncomfortable & she continues to do it. what do I do ?
Shallon help me pleas , so one of my friend been my best friend for a long time , she strated to do mean stuff to me like step on my show on purpus , she jugging me , and mostly leaves me out , i even tried to block her on instagram because she and her friend hated on me for no reason at all , i blocked her and thing got worst she must had told her friend and then they dm me your a fat hor you ugly and stupid . but she still treats me nice . But what i need help is should i still be friends with her , break up are friendship or dont even get near her again . BTS this is also is happening with my other friend with the same girl on muscally
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So what do I say to her when she comes up to me?
–(Continued) also she has told everyone that I'm avoiding her because I have blocked her on Facebook and stopped communication with her. She has told my family that she doesn't know why I'm mad or what she did and she is saying all this BS but I have done all I could to distance myself and she is turning this into a war, I need to get the idea clear that she can't mess with me, but it's harder because she is family… What should I do/say on Friday? Please respond ASAP.Shallon help! My aunt has done unmentionable things to me &most importantly my mom. she has told us to unfollow her on Facebook if we don't like what she's posting then when we unfollowed, she blasted us on Facebook to her friends, in which her friends said family isn't blood anymore & that they shouldn't be forced to be in the same family as us. But my mom & I have never done anything to her. But she thirsts for attention, got pregnant because of it, wore a wedding dress to my uncle's wedding, almost killed her baby(while pregnant) because she thought she was fat &wanted him out a month early by eating ghost peppers & pregnancy pizza, skipped meals &drank rock stars &wine everyday while pregnant, used my mom. &one time was the cause of my mom's stroke because of stress &she now knows I am mad at her &told the entire family her sob story but I have to see her on Friday &she wants to fix things w/out saying sorry b/c my mom hasn't let herself get used by my aunt anymore what do I say?
ok so I have a best friend he has been my best friend for a long time we have this group of friends we all hang out together but he doesnt text me anymore I have to be the one to text him I call him to hang out and he claims hes busy of aint feeling up to it were not as close as we used to be when we first met I feel as if he doesn't need me anymore but hes also kinda sensitive what do I do I need help!!!!
Hey I have a solution. So my grandma gave me a job. But later when I went over ,my 9 year old cousin took over and now my grandma is giving her all of my jobs ! I don't want to tell her how I feel bc she's my grandma. How do I tell her how I feel about her giving my job's away without hurting her feelings ?
Shallon please help me! So a friend of mine always make me feel embarrassed and stupid and she judge me in front of many people. We've been best friends for years, first she was sweet and always makes me feel positive but then she changed after i dated my frist boyfriend. Now shes mean and always makes me feel that all i did was all wrong. And now she didnt want me to date my crush because it will make me look like a bitch, thats what she said. Please i really need help. I dont know what to do but feel like this friendship must come to an end. Please help! ;(
Well dammit. I wish I had seen this in eighth grade, could have saved my self from a lot of panic attacks and depression
Shallon, Lacrosse season just ended for my freshman year. After spending months with my team and meeting over 30 new girls I still have no friends. The only girl who will actuallh talk to me is a total bitch. How do I become friends with my teammates next year? I really hated being a loner
Hello! I would love some advice. I met a girl almost a year ago, (lets call her Sandra), and at first, she seemed like such a kind person. She always made me laugh and carefully listened to what I would say. But over the months as I got to know her, she changed. Sandra became his girl who began calling me mean things and clinged to me. Sandra constantly calls me a potato, ugly, stupid, hypocrite, annoying, and complained how my shorts didn't match with an outfit my mother spent $70 dollars on. She is always saying how I should wear make-up or I look terrible. She never lets me have alone time either. Since she has no other friends, she clings to me every minute. The calling me names and picking on me has really weakened my self-esteem. I am now a self-conscious girl and think I'm ugly. I cannot even sit alone at lunch without her sitting next to me, or when shes not (which is rare), she stares at me. I kindly try to tell her to please leave me alone, but she ignores me and continues to bug me. I know if I tell her to leave me alone in a serious tone, she will get depressed and question our friendship. Sandra can not leave me without pouting. How do I deal with her? Thank you so much!!
how do u deal with a friend who is sometimes nice and sometimes a real snot and bratty. i feel like i shouldnt waste my time on people like that when there are so many just good people in the world. also she acts nice and sweet but really for the most part, shes not. and i have another group of friends who are downright sweet so i think i want to be friends w them. please please please help me shallon!! thanks:)
Ok so I'm 13 yrs old almost 14 I'm in 8th grade middle school ,and I've had some bad friends. I'm sure everyone has but ive been really mad lately because and even thou this issue has been delt with a while back this thing still annoys me because since I've left the group I only talk to some of the people. Others we just dont talk at all and I'm fine with that and the reason I left was because to put it short and sweet they weren't true real hardcore friends in so many ways so I'm like u know what I don't need this so I left and no one came up to me or asked me why I did what I did. And the people in the group hardly noticed that I was there or that I had left really or so it seemed. But the reason I'm mad is that and because I still want to be friends with one girl in the group but she's not into it and she like avoids me and doesn't even want to talk at all and I used to think she was the sweetest but idk anymore I know I should drop it and I've tried talking to her before but its just not happening. Any advice ?
what happens when your friend tells u that 1 morning she woke up and started crying because she was a bitch to u and then treats u like dirt the next day its just so confusing ?!?!?
do you have any advice ?